Reviews & Recommendations

Invaluable Resource - Secret Shame

As a life coach specializing in helping men overcome the trauma of childhood sexual abuse, I have found "Secret Shame" to be an invaluable resource. Authored by Dr. Douglas Carpenter, this book and accompanying workbook offer a comprehensive and sensitive approach to addressing the complex issues faced by male survivors. "Secret Shame" delves into the often overlooked topic of male sexual abuse, providing a deep exploration of the impact on male sexual development. Dr. Carpenter's writing, as both a therapist and a survivor himself, is compassionate and informative, offering a nuanced understanding of the challenges faced by male survivors.

The workbook provides practical exercises and reflective prompts that guide readers through a process of self-discovery and healing. One of the book's most commendable aspects is its focus on destigmatizing male sexual abuse and promoting understanding and empathy. Dr. Carpenter skillfully navigates the complexities of male sexual development and the unique challenges faced by male survivors, providing insightful guidance for both survivors and professionals working in the field. The workbook sections offer actionable tools for self-reflection and growth, empowering survivors to reclaim their sense of agency and self-worth.

I have witnessed firsthand the positive impact of "Secret Shame" on my coaching clients. It has provided them with a much-needed framework for navigating their healing journey, and has served as a catalyst for meaningful introspection and growth. Through its empathetic approach and practical tools, this book and workbook combination has become an indispensable resource in my coaching practice. In conclusion, "Secret Shame" is a vital resource for male survivors of childhood sexual abuse, as well as for professionals working in the field of trauma recovery. Dr. Carpenter's expertise and genuine care for survivors shine through in this well-crafted book, making it essential reading on healing from childhood sexual trauma.

- Michael A. Chapman

   Founder & Certified Recovery Life Coach @ Polar Life Consulting